Why do TEENAGERS perform or restrain from SEX!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

As teenagers, of course we have wants and needs and we are maturing everyday in physiques, attitude and behaviour. As teenagers we have a new attitude as our hormones are activated and we are inspired to the one thing we all desire, SEX!!!!!!!!. As teenagers we talk about this everyday and so some engage in this act. Is it that you just want to experience it?, whats the hurry, is it that your friends all perform this act and so you want to feel important so you do this too as in the movie 18 YEAR OLD VIRGIN. Is it that you are not loved at home and so when you do find that person and they insist that they love you, you perform this act with them because he/she says they love you. Is it that you think your just too ugly and so when someone tells you that your pretty as the girl in MADEA'S I CAN DO BAD ALL BY MYSELF, you offer yourself as a gift because, "Oh everyone says i am ugly and this person says i am pretty", are you an idiot, a fool, to offer yourself to that trick, that person knows you, they know what you will do and so they just say that but i guess you got trapped, you got tricked, you just gave away that feeling of unity, a connection, a moment in your life that will always be memorable as the day you broke your celibacy. 

Is it that you and  your partner were kissing and apparently it led to it but what happens if something went wrong, if you or your girlfriend got impregnated, are you ready to become a father or mother, can you provide financially for this child, do you possess the characteristics of good parenthood, but i guess that's why Family Life Programs were established.

Some teenagers however, restrain from sex as they know the possible outcomes of possessing or being contracted with sexual diseases or having the fatal HIV AIDS. Teenagers who restrain to preserve that moment, that connection, that feeling is  because they have a goal, an objective, an aim and until that aim is attained then lucidly they will engage when it is accomplished or base on their religious principles. Some may restrain as they are not physically or mentally prepared to commit this act, this decision, this giving or losing of his/her virginity, this common practice of teenagers as in the movie YOUTH IN REVOLT.

 

Teenagers who perform this act should be defensive, be conservative, protect yourself from being invaded by the diseases inherited from sexual intercourse.

If you juxtapose those that perform it with those who restrain , you will see that those that commit this act or likely to endanger themselves if naive. Teenagers who restrain, good job!!!!!!!!!!!!, secure it for that special person, that special person for that special moment in your life, let it be one to remember and not to regret. If your forced, resist, if your intimidated, don't follow, your a head and not a tail, you do your own thing, you be different, don't care about what they do, say or act towards you, you let them know that you are different and so save it for the right person as it the right time.